Tantric Massage therapy

Tantric Massage with Sacred Spot Activation & Conscious Relating Coaching

Locations: London & Brighton

Certified Tantric Educator, Orgasmic Meditation Trainer & Life Coach


Hi I am SJ, I have over 4 years experience in working together with women, men and couples in conscious sexuality. I am a Certified Tantric Educator (a graduate from the Source School of Tantra), an Orgasmic Meditation Trainer and Life Coach. I’ve also trained in Massage, Reflexology, Reiki and NLP.


I offer 3 different types of sessions (Women only) and sex and intimacy coaching.

All sessions include the following:

  • Pre-screening video calls before the session where I explain the contents of the sessions.
  • A discussion in setting boundaries, desires and manifestations.
  • Guided meditation, breathing and sound techniques.
  • Information on what actions you can be taken in your lives to achieve exactly what you want.
  • I remain fully clothed throughout all sessions. No sessions involve mouth to mouth or genital to genital contact, nor are there any reciprocation.

Session 1

  • Light touch, relaxing, pressure point massage which is fully clothed, with chakra alignment and activation.


Duration: 50 minutes. Cost £50


Session 2


  • Full body massage (no genital touch), including reflexology, zero balancing, pressure point activation and chakra/energy centre realignment.
  • I recommend this option for those that want to deeply relax, feel nourished and increase energy flow between themselves and others.


Duration 90 minutes. Cost £150


Session 3 Tantra Activation Massage (see the testimonials for more information).


  • Full body massage, including reflexology, zero balancing, pressure point activation and chakra/energy centre realignment.
  • Genital touch, sacred spot activation combined with orgasmic meditation, and base chakra work (optional).
  • 10,000 nerve endings are stimulated, leading to neural pathways being re-connected and restored.
  • Pleasure occurs as dopamine, serotonin, oxytocin and phenylethylamine are pumping through your body simultaneously as Neuro-Linguistic-Programming (NLP), and hypnotic suggestion are masterfully interwoven into the session
  • Access deeper parts of yourself, feel authentic, connect to higher consciousness and manifest brilliance in your life

Energy and future neuro-transmitters can now move easily into these brain regions leading to greater joy and pleasure in everyday activities. Tantra Massage Activation allows you to go deeper into the psychological and therapeutic aspects of the massage and it allows you to connect to the universal energy and the source of love.


Duration 150-180 minutes Cost £400


Sessions occur in my studio in Kensal Rise, or in other regions of London or the UK, contact me for more details.
During coaching sessions, I support people in loving all parts of themselves and sharing their most intimate aspects with others. I coach people on how to obtain exactly what they want. My sessions are usually on how people can feel truly happy and aligned to their purpose. If you’re going through a difficult time then I can coach you to be back onto your true mission in life.


Before entering the conscious relating field I worked in Humanitarian Response in leading emergency teams in war-torn countries. I can hold space allowing you to let go and am exceptional in working with people who have experienced trauma.


I assist people on the following:

  • Learning to accept your sexuality and to utilise your sexual passion
  • Create deep, healthy, loving intimate relationships
  • Setting healthy boundaries
  • Asking for what you need and desire, and getting exactly what you want
  • Learning how to stop fear-based/core belief patterns from running your life
  • Re-awakening your dormant passion and sexuality
  • Adopting Tantric sexual practices for whole life transformation


I offer coaching packages for a minimum of 3 months, as that’s how long my clients find it takes to make lasting changes in their lives. Each package is bespoke and uniquely developed for the client’s requirements. Contact me directly for more information and my rates.



Ranelle, 36, Jewellery Designer, Bali “Coaching with SJ is one of the best things you can do for yourself. I’ve gained so much insight about myself, and what I want.”


Naomi, 38, Entrepreneur and Coach, London

“I went to see SJ whilst I was having a very difficult and emotionally upsetting time with my partner. I was impressed by how present and attentive SJ is. His caring manner put me totally at ease.


I wanted to heal my relationship with men and he listened and reflected back to me all the significant historical situations. I found the session incredibly pleasurable and beautiful. I released amrita (AKA I squirted!) which felt like a deep release inside me and I felt emotionally much lighter afterwards.


That evening my partner and I had sex and climaxed at the same time for the first time in 2 years. Afterwards, we both cried and he very rarely cries so it was a major breakthrough for him too. Another added and unexpected benefit was that I slept like a baby!”.


Soriya, 34, Certified Tantric Educator, Los Angeles


“SJ has a calm presence that immediately put myself at ease. He’s easy to talk to, a great listener and connects with you before your session. His empathetic nature and professionalism help create a container for healing and bliss.

My intention with him was to relax and feel pleasure and he did exactly that. SJ has a very warm and comforting touch. I enjoyed his angelic presence and feel very nurtured. I was very pleased as I enjoyed every minute of our time together.”


Irene, 30, Business Owner, New York,


“SJ is a masterful tantra coach. His presence and ability to make women feel safe are what drew me to him. In my tantra and sacred spot activation session, we set an intention to tune into my sensations and not to rush for an outcome.


SJ met me skillfully, holding space for my blissful energy to unfold, and the result was unbelievable. I felt more pleasure in my body. I feel powerful, energized and radiant. I highly recommend SJ as a powerful and skilful tantra coach.”


YN, 36, Consultant, London: “My Tantra and sacred spot session with SJ was a beautiful, well held experience. At the beginning of the session, we set our intention on specific issues that I wanted to work on. I felt safe and clear about what was about to occur. The session itself was a profound experience of letting go.


SJ’s touch was very responsive to my body, which allowed me to open up at my own pace with no rush. We went as deep as we needed to go to and when I expressed I was satisfied and we stopped.


SJ was absolutely fantastic in holding space, encouraging me to let out whatever needs to come out. I am grateful for this experience and for SJ professional, clear, warm and loving care of me.


Highly recommended!”


Contact me to see how I can assist you in being the best person you can be.


Website: sacredsexualhealing.org.uk


Email: sj@sacredsexualhealing.org.uk


Call: +44 7730 523 372