Jem Ayres is a Somatic Sex Educator, Orgasmic Embodiment Coach.

With a rich background of Tantra and a certificate in Sexological Bodywork, Jem offers Bodywork sessions and Online Coaching to individuals and couples who wish to stoke their inner-fire. That fire is healing, it’s pleasure, it’s self-acceptance, it’s motivation, it’s deep self-love, it’s creativity, its rebirthing and it’s connection with yourself and what you put out into the world. sexological bodyworker

Coaching and Bodywork sessions for working on:

  • Growth
  • Healing
  • Intimacy
  • Pleasure


Who can benefit from Somatic Bodywork and Online Coaching practice?

Anyone who identifies with the following:

  • Individuals who wish to find new pathways to pleasure
  • Couples who wish to connect more deeply, learning alternative ways of being sexual and sensual together.
  • Anxiety around intimacy
  • Negative body image
  • Disconnection from body, too ‘in the head’ which blocks pleasure
  • Low libido/lack of interest o desire in sex
  • Choice around Orgasm – what holds you back?
  • Performance anxiety, erection or ejaculation dissatisfaction.
  • Genital pain, numbness or tension
  • Pelvic or genital scarring from surgery and/or childbirth

How it works:

Sexological bodywork is a co-created session between myself and you.

After enquiry, I would send you a confidential intake form for you to fill out and send back.  The information on this form will help me tailor your Bodywork and Coaching session for you, and I would talk you through this in advance so as you can make changes and know what to expect.

The session can include coaching, breathwork, massage, consensual touch and other somatic exercises to explore what comes up within you.

You’ll be set homework to do in between sessions, as your development is very much in your hands.

Whether its understanding yourself, your body and your arousal more, wanting to deepen your connection with your partner or learn some self-touch Orgasmic Yoga techniques for more mindful masturbation, get in touch to see if what Jem has to offer could fit what you need.

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Jem has bucket loads of knowledge on the subject of sexual energy and pleasure beyond what you can learn in a book…Jem embodies her work. Nothing seems to phase her when discussing what was possible for my pleasure practice. I’m inspired by her coaching to integrate it into my life more, I feel like I’ve scratched the surface of what is possible and look forward to exploring more. Meeting myself and my body with fresh eyes each day, to enhance my pleasure and connection with life.’