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How to Be with Her – Level 1 Discovery

April 23, 2017 @ 11:00 am - 7:00 pm BST

Tantra mens workshop
Announcing two new workshops in April: How to Be with Her ‘Level 1 Discovery’ and ‘Level 2 Intimacy’. Two experiential workshops for men, exploring how to be with a woman.

How to Be with Her – Level 1 Discovery – April 23, 2017

An experiential workshop for men, exploring how to be with a woman.

Created and facilitated by Andrew Singer and Linus Gorpe.

“When I was growing up, and becoming a man, no-one taught me how to be with a woman. In fact, much of what I learned – from porn, from school mates; from movies; from sex manuals – turned out to be mainly unhelpful and left me very confused.”

If this speaks to you as a man, just realise that you’re not alone and you don’t need to figure all this out by yourself. You don’t need to keep making painful mistakes, and messing up with women you are attracted to. “How to be with her?” – now in its fourth year – is a unique one-day workshop, created and led by Andrew Singer and Linus Gorpe. The workshop will be essentially experiential. It is a rare opportunity to explore this “Holy Grail”. It is suitable for any man, of any age, with or without previous workshop experience, and whether in a relationship or not.

When groups of women are asked what they want of a man as they approach sexual intimacy, and within intimacy itself, repeatedly the same message emerges. Women report that they just do not feel “met” by the men in their lives. They long to trust and feel fully safe with a man. They long to open and surrender to a man in the bliss of sexual intimacy.

Although no one ever taught you this stuff when you were growing up, it can be learned. And it is not about learning the techniques of where to touch her, and the like. It is on a deeper level entirely. This workshop offers ways of how to be able to stay fully in your centre, in your power and your open heart and not get thrown off course by how she is. It is entirely possible to learn and feel into, how to do this so that being with her works for you and works for her. You can learn how to give her that sense of being fully “met” by you; fully safe to open completely to you. This really is possible. Take the next step. Sign up for now.
Only 20 places available.

Date: Sunday, April 23, 2017
Timings: 10am to 6pm [Registration from 9.30am]
Venue: Clapham, London [details upon booking].
Price: £85

Early Bird Discount: Sign up now, and pay only £70 each.

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What past participants have said about the workshop:

“The workshop felt really well held, very safe, and free from any facilitator agenda or issues.” [J.R.]

“Thanks again for Saturday. It was a great day and just what I need. I left feeling invigorated. empowered and very much in my heart. I’ve done quite a bit of mens work and various other related things but this was definitely unique. I was impressed by the potential for depth, given we only had one day. I felt I had the opportunity to challenge myself …. but at the same time felt no pressure to do so. There were a number of light bulb moments for me about what, as men, we have to balance in our lives and how to manage it.” [S.M.]

“My thanks again to the two of you for leading last Saturday’s workshop. I found it intense and fascinating work providing useful insights into what women are looking for in men and why.” [P.W.]

“The day gave me some real insight into how to be with women, seeing things from their world and de-mystifying what I saw as irrational behaviour. And the exercises gave me chance to practise the presence skills needed to “be with her.” Every man should do this – for the sake of mankind, womankind and a more harmonious world!” [V.P.]

“A very useful and, at times, thought-provoking day. The structure had an excellent balance of ‘learning/exploring together’ and ‘experiencing through short and effective activities.’ Andrew and Linus created and held a safe and supportive space, which allowed me to make contact with – and explore – important areas I normally neglected. The afternoon structure … was a very powerful experience – painful, joyous, enriching, and valuable. Many thanks to you both for such a rewarding day, and I hope to join you for other activities in the future.” [V.V.]

If you have any man friends whom you think would benefit from attending one of our How to Be with Her workshops we would really appreciate it if you forwarded this newsletter to them.

Who are we and why we do it

Andrew Singer

I have been on a self-development path for over twenty years.  I have trained with many teachers, and have benefitted from many schools.  Now semi-retired, I spend my time mentoring men individually, mainly in the areas of relationships & sexuality  and also doing hands-on healing work.  I have a gift for helping people deal with what holds them back from fully enjoying and experiencing their lives.

Linus Gorpe

I am currently in a very loving, easy-going and deep relationship. I love it!! It is possible! In 2009 I started my first year long Tantra self-developing course with Jewels Wingfield. Shortly after I started on another 18 months Tantra training with Jan Day –  and consequently assisted on two more 18 months Tantra trainings. During these 7 years, I learned a lot about what works and what doesn’t work with women. And more importantly, I learned how to be more authentically me! It has brought me so much joy over these years seeing a woman softening and radiating love in my presence. As a result, I have been asked by many women and men to share the knowledge and skills I have learnt about How to Be with Her.

Links to follow

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April 23, 2017
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